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Description of the Research and the Book that will come from this research.
“Good Girls Like Sex Too!”
It’s time for the “good girl” syndrome to die with “the world is flat” faux pas. Over a decade of working with couples in marriage and sex therapy, I’ve learned that one of the most powerful predictors of divorce is sex. This means that one of the biggest predictors of a happy marriage has to do with sex too. If you seriously consider the value of sex in marriage and the awesome superglue power sex possesses in developing the true “one-ness” that the institution of marriage was designed for, it’s easy to appreciate the importance of this book.
You might think that something so important as happiness, and life satisfaction should compel more authors to write about sexual intimacy in marriage. There aren’t very many. And of those books, that include sexual discussion, many seem to be lacking in the role of sex in developing the true intimacy marriages are designed to have. It’s total neglect! (O.K. There are some good books that discuss sex and I mention them in the appendix.) Not only are we lacking helpful information in the literature, we are lacking in the teaching area. We aren’t learning about it adequately at home. We don’t learn about it at school. And we certainly aren’t learning about connecting with your spouse through mutually satisfying sex at church! So, where are we learning about sex? (Clamor-Clamor…) Are the sources of this information helpful or hurtful? Is the information worthy of repetition? Where can we turn for answers? Voulais!!
All good writers should admit their bias.
I am a happiness-comfort seeking, irreverent, conservative Christian. As a Christian I believe that our purpose for living is to experience joy. (“Adam fell that men might be men are that they might have joy”) When people aren’t experiencing the joy that I believe a loving and interested Heavenly Father has intended his children to experience… something is amiss. In terms of society, I also believe that happy satisfied couples united with the superglue of sexual intimacy provide the perfect platform for their children to launch into life with a promising future.
If you are brave enough, or curious enough, I invite you to take a journey that allows you into the private lives of over 100 courageous, good women who have joined hands in unity to claim their right of marital sexual enjoyment. Without these brave women, we would not have this book.
So… What’s in the book?
What are the conditions for enjoyable sex? What barriers do women have to overcome to enjoy sex? How did they overcome these barriers? Are there any guidelines in terms of stimulation for sexual enjoyment? What does it really take to climax? You will also learn secrets women rarely share with their friends about what works to make their relationship really rock.
Only the wisest and bravest men will read this book. You men who read this book truly care about the happiness of your spouse. You submit yourself to their tutelage. There is so much we can learn from these sacred pages.